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My husband at a friend’s circle is a name of old smoke stick, one day two packs of cigarettes (smoked a pack of their own, pumping another package is distributed to others, to be Zhou’s ) unshakeable, but also are more than 50 yuan a good smoke. To him that smoking thing, I did not find him to talk less, and as early as before the marriage of his parents for this and he fights, but not significantly effective, long time, will relapse. Usually referred to as the sky is always blue, the men can not deal with direct confrontation, the very warm boiled frog, so he unwittingly died in anesthesia.
I advise 伕
total cessation program following three principles: First, opposition to his obvious smoking; another, and then the child and family health Pathfinder; then use his preferences lure him; final way then please let him complete relief.
He initially two packs of cigarettes a day is pumping, I do not have very strong opposition, just a touch told him that he can continue to smoke boldly drawn, but our child is born, the family should the principles of thrift, suggested that he smoked the pack himself into a little cheaper. See I said can be considered a point, and he gladly accepted.
Month later, he was fit to be a good one bad situation after two packets, the second step I started: I said that he can continue smoking a cigarette, a man must have their own little thing hobbies, I which I can understand, but for our children’s healthy growth, I provided him a strong face in front of the child will be allowed to smoke, or pumping one, off a throw on a pack. Second step, he also willingly accepted.
Three months later, through the time they watch TV, he is smoking the opportunity, I deliberately kept coughing. His pity was moved, had promptly hand smoke is, and I said: all right, ah, you smoked the root of it, anyway, I’m used to suck your second-hand smoke, just like the child did not affect I here does not matter. See my face spotlessly clean, this is announced to me his own: the spirit of mutual respect between 伕 wife and the principles of peaceful co-existence, then I will not smoke at home, and his wife also received adult supervision, even I have to smoke, you can apply again and again asked me to house. So good times, he probably only about a week it insisted, one day he was hiding in the bathroom to smoke, and I asked him how to deal with, he said nothing, the windows and exhaust fans are turned on, then shut the door, he was a person smoked out of the bathroom again. Ji days before I asked him how he himself said, hoping that he can fulfill his promise. So, he finally had to take away the door, that time is the winter season can be Oh, when he came in, I asked him pits fun, fun, or cold, he did not answer me, but he never ever not at home years smoked.
Six months later, in my carefully arranged and under the guidance of a home in the car, just as he put it down on the car, the foot can not be away from the car during the most fanatical, he and I had a deep conversation. I solemnly made his home after buying the car costs increased significantly, and provide details of a bill, suggested that he either sold the car and continue to ride an electric car to work (this time it is the rainy season), or in other as far as possible cost savings. Although I have not let him cut down that cigarette and said, in fact, this time he should really understand what I mean. The sky is always blue teacher, so he asked the next initiative, I well approve his initiative to reduce smoking two packs a day one day a pack.
Smoking cessation programs to continue, in order to further calculation is necessary to use his package should be Zhou people, but also to treat yourself to that pack of cigarettes, I have greatly increased and with him out to be Zhou’s time, every person I pleaded with him to the people smoke. Until the day he only forty-five into their mouth. Until one day weekend, the children go to grandma’s house, and both he and I have nothing to do at home watching TV. In accordance with established protocol, the day he happens to be the cook, and television is broadcast cones race, I had an idea, know to quit smoking completely mobilized his last chance. So I asked him, he is now going to cook it, or would like to continue watching TV now, then you can stay a while watching the game cones, sipping wine. Then the negotiations began: I said that from now on all the housework I can a package, you can watch TV every day back home, play games, Why Why Love, and fruit snacks ready for him, but my request only one, that is, you have to quit to quit. Anyway, now you smoke the day before forty-five also had not addiction, it is better for a hobby, find another kind of fun, you can make fun of, I can stay with you … husband suddenly realized, but He tearfully nodded firmly.